Understanding Your Rights After De Facto Separation
When a de facto or close personal relationship ends, navigating the division of assets, financial responsibilities, and parenting arrangements can be overwhelming. Many people mistakenly assume that if they were not legally married, they do not have rights to a property settlement.
However, Australian family law provides de facto couples with similar entitlements to those of married couples when it comes to financial and parenting matters. Understanding these rights is crucial to ensuring a fair and just outcome after separation. For tailored help, visit Jameson Law – Family Law or contact our team.
Timing Matters
Timing is everything in de facto property settlements. A claim must generally be made within two years of separation, otherwise, special permission from the court is required. See the Family Law Act 1975 and the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia for process guidance. The law recognises that financial and non-financial contributions both play a role in a relationship, so property division is not simply a matter of who earned the most income.
Contributions in the Relationship
Contributions like homemaking, raising children, and supporting a partner’s career or business are factored in. The court also considers each person’s future financial prospects, including their ability to earn an income, their health, and any caregiving responsibilities. Learn more about dispute resolution pathways at Family Relationships Online.
In some cases, even if a relationship lasted less than two years, a claim can still be made
if there is a child of the relationship, parenting orders overview
if significant financial or personal contributions were made
if failing to divide assets would cause financial injustice.
Spousal Maintenance and Child Support
Financial support does not necessarily end after a relationship does. If one partner is unable to support themselves financially post separation and the other has the means to help, spousal maintenance may be available. See de facto maintenance principles in the Family Law Act.
This is not automatic
each case is assessed individually, and payments will usually stop if the recipient enters a new de facto relationship or remarries.
Similarly, child support remains a legal obligation regardless of whether a couple was married or not. Start with Services Australia – Child Support and consider independent advice from our family law team.
If there is a dispute about parentage, a court may order a DNA test: parentage testing
Same sex couples are also entitled to seek child support from a former partner.
Binding Financial Agreements
One way to avoid uncertainty after a separation is to have a binding financial agreement in place. These agreements set out how assets, liabilities, and financial support will be handled if the relationship ends. See the Attorney-General’s overview of financial agreements.
While they provide clarity, they must meet strict legal requirements
including both parties receiving independent legal advice. Get practical guidance via Jameson Law – Family Law.
Addressing Financial Abuse
For those who have experienced financial control or coercion during their relationship, seeking legal advice is especially important. Economic abuse is recognised as a form of family violence, and courts can consider this when dividing assets.
If a partner was denied access to finances. Learn about domestic and family violence supports in NSW
Or pressured into signing an unfair agreement. Read the AIFS snapshot on economic abuse
Legal intervention can help rectify the situation. Reach out to Jameson Law.
Parenting Arrangements After Separation
When children are involved, their best interests always come first. Ideally, parents should work together to agree on arrangements, which can be formalised through a parenting plan or court orders.
If agreement is not possible, the court will decide based on what is best for the child. This can include decisions about
Where the child lives
How much time they spend with each parent
Matters like schooling and religion.
Before making any decisions, courts usually require parents to attempt dispute resolution, unless there is a history of family violence or abuse. See parenting orders and Family Dispute Resolution.
Social Security and De Facto Status
De facto couples are also entitled to social security benefits in the same way that married couples are. Start at Services Australia for payments and separation guidance.
If a relationship ends and one partner has dependent children, they may qualify for government support.
If a former partner passes away, the surviving partner may also be eligible for benefits, just as a widow or widower would be.
Final Thoughts
De facto relationships are legally recognised and protected under Australian law, but many people only realise the extent of their rights when it is too late.
Whether you need advice about dividing property, negotiating financial support, formalising parenting arrangements, or protecting your future through a financial agreement, seeking expert legal guidance is the best way to ensure you are treated fairly.
At Jameson Law, we are dedicated to helping clients navigate the complexities of de facto separation and achieve the best possible outcome. If you need legal advice tailored to your circumstances, contact our team to discuss your options or visit our Family Law hub.